The last love language might come as a shock to some: Physical Touch. It’s not about deeply intimate touching. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
Just think about the last time you got a hug from the person you love. If it’s been a long time already then him/her might not have this love language but if it happens ever so often then it probably is. At time, simple touches have been taken for granted and others think it to be useless but it is very powerful if used properly (this also means having to ulterior motive when doing so).