According to Gray Chapman, the first love language is “Words of Affirmation”. You see, for some people actions don’t always speak louder than words. Some people feel very much loved when you tell them words which affirms their existence and importance to you as their friend. You can tell if this person has this type of love language if he/her loves to listen to you talk and speak about positive things about themselves.
What is the application to knowing this? Basically so that you may know how to express your love towards other people better. And the challenge is this, do the same thing to the people you dislike. Even though you just say a simple “thank you” this challenge will relieve you of so much load that you wouldn’t believe that such a simple task can be so beneficial to you.
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